on his/her character, intelligence, level of learning, financial status, family and health status, appearance and level of religious observance.
Usually a professional matchmaker is called a shadchan, but anyone who makes a shidduch is considered the shadchan for it.
Setting Yourself up for Success Putting Yourself out There Having a Successful First Date Building on the First Date and Beyond Community Q&A It can be difficult to strike a good balance when dating.
How do you appear interested without coming off as desperate or needy?
How do you get to know someone without being nosy or rude?
And how do you figure out how a person feels about you — or tell them how you feel about them — without either of you feeling uncomfortable?